Fighting For a Guy. The Right Guy.

Hello friends,
In my last post, I mentioned how I had to fight for him for months. That is no exaggeration. It was not easy to finally be able to call him my boyfriend. The night we met was in August 2011, we didn't start dating until February 2012. Six months! It took six whole months for everything to fall into place. This goes to show two things.
One. Never rush matters of the heart. Love does not come and go easily. You can not force it upon yourself or upon somebody else. It will fool you, trick you, play games with your mind and your spirit, it will break you and shatter you, only to build you up again. True love will take its time with you, and only succeed when you are ready. Whether you are looking for love, or falling in love, the more you try to hurry it along, the longer it will take for it to truly be perfect. Not only that, but this process is one of the most beautiful occurrences the human heart ever experiences. It hurts, sometimes, and it's never as easy as we think it will be. So, be patient and take each day as it comes.
Two. Many girls think that they deserve to be fought for; that they should be waited on hand and foot by the right man. In some ways, yes, we women do deserve that, but only as much as our men do. The thing about guys is, their brains don not operate the same way as ours. It is as simple as that. They are unable to see things the way we do. Sometimes, they forgot how important the "little things" are to us. Sometimes, they try to stop themselves from falling in love. This is what happened to me. I knew Nick loved me, but he was unsure about dating again, so it wasn't easy for our relationship to really come into full bloom. I never let up, though. There were times when I would go for quite awhile without contacting him, and other periods of time when I would show up at his house every night. I knew that I wanted him. I knew in my heart, this was they boy for me, so I refused to give up. I did everything in my power to win that boy. So girls, don't be afraid to fight. Don't be afraid to go all out if it's what you truly want. You're going to skin a few knees and shed a few tears, but if he's truly the right man for you, it will be worth it.

"you deserve flowers on your doorstep

and coffee in the morning

you deserve notes left on your dashboard

and ice cream sundaes at 3am

you deserve honesty every day

and to be kissed every hour

you deserve to be reminded

how beautiful you are"   -unknown

I can promise you this, if it's the right guy that you're fighting for, when you finally win him over, you will be rewarded with the most amazing love. Never, ever give up on true love, and it will never give up on you.

Bri<3